English as a second language; ESL; TESOL ; Self-disclosure; Self-presentation (communication research) ; Homosexualität; Homosexuality; Lesbian language; Gayspeak; Lavender linguistics; Queer linguistics ; Identität und Sprache; Identity and language; Fremdheit und Sprache; Estrangement and language; Sprache und Integration; Integration und Sprache; Language and identity ; Second language acquisition (pragm.) ; Zweitspracherwerb (pragm.) ; Interactionist hypothesis (second language acquisition) ; Conversational analysis (second language acquisition) ; English ; Korean